'The main aim is not to be afraid of yourself\r'

'Several months ago I participated at genteelness â€Å"Effective colloquy”. Actually, I didn’t think it will be reusable for me, because I wasn’t a unsure psyche, who doesn’t know what he wants from purport.I didn’t welcome some special problems in personal relationships and in communications with my friends/teachers/family/etc. Still, my friend invited me to visit this training and I agreed. Let it be, †I thought, †maybe I’ll find something enkindle on that point, †who knows. To tell the truth, it was very useful for me and I’ve acquire a lot of interesting things about myself which helped me to communicate with other(a) people to a greater extent effective.After that training I understood that if I extend myself (if I’m not changing myself) I’ll be happy and I’ll eternally be able to find way out from each difficult situation.The main aim is not to be appalled of yourself, to love and to accept yourself as you are. by chance for me I found out that I always was unsure in my actions, I was self-confident notwithstanding only to some extent and very practically subsequently I took some decision; I tried to think over, what could happen if I acted in another way.I mean that I learned to go out at my problems in simpler way, and then after I realized that actually I don’t have any problems. I understood that when the person is â€Å"opened”, people like him and they strive after him. You don’t need to be afraid and to hide your feelings, and then people start to say you. Some of my fears from childhood disappeared; now in more cases I can authority my aggression towards the other people.I was able to determine aim in my life, my subjective state of mind changed into more vivid and confident. dialogue with other people became more opened; I started to control my feelings. I learned that everything in my life depends on me, not on som ebody else. That there are a lot of great possibilities, I only have to open my eyes and to realise them. Before I was loosing confidence in sieve situations, and now I’m able to control my feelings.We made different kinds of tests and I understood that I like to clash with my friends and that I don’t show to people, who are close to me, feelings expressing my good spot to them. I received practical knowledge in the field of understanding of human emotions and problems; I learned a lot of facts about myself with help of soul-searching and from opinions of other people. It was the unique experience for me and it helped me greatly in my life.\r\n \r\n'